INCONSUMAZIONE / IMPOTENCE Grounds for invalidity of a religious ceremony, part one: ... and around the INCONSUMAZIONE.
After making a brief look at the reasons for invalidity related to treason (But we'll come back, the matter is divided), I would have fun (so to speak) to talk about marriage voidable for INCONSUMAZIONE.
If more of you, seeing such a debut, it will be done the most glaring laughter - and did well, because the rice makes good blood - should think again read below ... We are in XXI century, people live together well before to marry, premarital chastity is very rare stuff, and none the less it still happens that things go in such a way that a marriage may be ratified and not consummated, however ...
In practice, a marriage is valid if both spouses have an apparatus genital healthy and perfectly formed, if they have no kind of psychological problem that blocks them in sexuality, and if after all this, after the celebration of their marriage, they manage to have just one sexual intercourse, in which a man ejaculates inside the vagina of his wife.
I apologize for the crudeness of the narrative and the use of aseptic terms, say, technical. However, if even one of these premises, which may seem trivial, do not occur, there is a possibility that your marriage is null and void for inconsumazione.
Then, the bride, just after the "yes, run with the baton before the photo shoot (and sometimes it happens, and ends in the chronicles daring), can see annulled the marriage right now, not only because she is a raving lunatic, but for obvious inconsumazione, no matter if the poor groom scoranacchiato had until the day before an intense and passionate sex life.
If your beloved husband is impotent, your marriage is void. There is nothing to be done. And no matter what you want so much ... you can stay friends if you dare, but a necessary condition so that your marriage to be valid is that sexual intercourse is possible.
A man with a reproductive system is not well-formed (organic impotence), which does not reach full sexual act can not be a husband.
Similarly, for women with vaginal malformations, which make it impossible to report (this is called organic impotence of women), marriage may be declared invalid.
For women, however, there is a better chance, since it allowed the construction of an "artificial vagina", even after the wedding, after which the marriage can be "validation."
I open a parenthesis: infertility. Per se is not the cause of nullity, unless it has been silenced (but we'll talk). Malformations of the above are only those that prevent the sexual act, no matter in this context whether the malformations are associated with infertility.
Nullity for impotence, male and female, where the act fails to be consummated for reasons of "psychological" (functional impairment).
The husband who for seven years before the marriage there has never "touched", maybe it was not only respectful of your virtue .... Nowadays it does not happen anymore? It happens, happens ...
Unfortunately, and I regret to say, a woman who, as a result of violence in the past, after the marriage continues to show his complete aversion to sex, which does not allow the husband to have any relationship with her, can see their marriage annulled.
These are the "macro cases" ... Then there are the sub-cases .... Some of the stories so real that they even exceed the imagination
inconsumazione was zero for the marriage when her husband, while having an erection, did not ejaculate at all (male anorgasmia, it seems impossible and yet exist). The two poor fellows thought they had consummated the marriage, since it had relationships with penetration ... but no!
invalid even the marriage of those two poor people when he tried to "consume", and she was crying from the pain and made it impossible for the whole.
That is to say that it is true that we are in the twenty-first century and for the most part they have relationships and live together before marriage also, but remember: Even a small malfunction, maybe underestimated by the couple at the right moment, even curable in another context, may invalidate the marriage, because it actually makes an incomplete or ineffective (for the purpose "of the validity of the marriage") the sexual act.
There is only one small problem sull'inconsumazione of marriage: prove it!
There are three ways:
short time, ie when the spouses have never cohabited or have never been alone after the wedding (prime example: the bride who runs away with the witness, referred to above) ... remember, to talk about inconsumazione, must have celebrated the wedding, what was there before (the runaway bride in the collective is certainly a bit 'ho ....) changes everything in the background!
physical arguments. Easy, even humiliating, to those who have a glaring flaw. Difficult for those without obvious flaws, has not had an ad hoc report, but perhaps incomplete. In fact, brace yourselves, friends of the TE, to document a inconsumazione may ask the woman to undergo a pelvic examination and document their integrity (alias virginity). If she admitted that allows to submit to such request was not a virgin before (other stories, other life, etc ...), the test does not have any more!
"moral argument": the affidavit of the spouses and harmonious, more, not you know, ever, that of witnesses who have received the confidences at the right moment. Provided that such witnesses have the hair to go to court to tell all they know on one another's sex life unsatisfactory
... To be continued ....